This is how you fix the problem when you try to add your friend to Blackberry Messenger and it stays in 'pending'. It is reallllllly annoying if you don't know how to fix the shit.
First write down your friends PIN or copy to Clipboard. Then, while in the messenger window, select menu / add contact / scroll to the top / highlight use once / menu /request by pin/type in friends PIN/VOILA!
Here's where I got the tip!!
I went to the biggest Toronto party for Sex and the City. It was ok. We looked great though!! Tiffany and I went together. She is my BFF from work :)
Lucky me.......I got this great thing from Matchstick.ca. Check it out!!
I also have coupons for the gadget and it's under $30! 
On a plane, at the beach or anywhere in between, this portable battery-powered charger extends the power of your iPod so you can continue to listen to the music you love.
Energizer® Energi To Go® Portable Power for iPod is a battery-powered charger that provides extended play time to a variety of iPod models. Sleek enough to complement the iconic styling of the iPod, the compact charger is lightweight and travels easily.
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